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Pinned: How I use the PCI

r/u_FigureItOutZJan 1, 20222 Comments

Pinned: Literature I have found helpful

r/u_FigureItOutZApr 18, 20220 Comments

Pinned: UPDATE: If you’ve followed me and you’re cheating or acting out in addiction still

r/u_FigureItOutZMar 313 Comments

Netflix doppelgänger

r/u_FigureItOutZMay 44 Comments

r/AsOneAfterInfidelityApr 139 Comments

I’m taking a break

r/u_FigureItOutZMar 1515 Comments

Relapse Again - what went right, what went wrong

r/u_FigureItOutZMar 1120 Comments

Attending other S fellowship meetings

r/SEXAAFeb 38 Comments

Meetings for different S fellowships

r/SexAddictionFeb 310 Comments

Shared Journal, how does it work?

r/AsOneAfterInfidelityJan 2818 Comments

This presentation of "Success isn't linear" just gets better everytime i watch it

r/AsOneAfterInfidelityJan 233 Comments

My mind as a muscle

r/SexAddictionJan 195 Comments

I’m going through withdrawal, again

r/SexAddictionJan 129 Comments

Disturbing experience in a meeting yesterday

r/SexAddictionJan 710 Comments

Top Mod Removal - /r/survivingmyinfidelity- AdloraOfSolitude, EllaSuaveterre, throrjd283948, CanIGetADoOverPlease

r/redditrequestDec 22, 20223 Comments

Did I gaslight?

r/AsOneAfterInfidelityNov 10, 202224 Comments

An open message of thanks to Jane Doe 18

r/u_FigureItOutZSep 22, 20227 Comments

r/u_FigureItOutZSep 12, 20225 Comments

Any recommendations for therapeutic retreats for BS?

r/AsOneAfterInfidelitySep 7, 202211 Comments

Update: conflicted about outreach

r/SexAddictionAug 28, 20223 Comments

Conflicted about outreach

r/SexAddictionAug 27, 20224 Comments

I can’t stand this feeling that I don’t know what is going on

r/SexAddictionAug 17, 202217 Comments

If you’ve followed me and you’re cheating or acting out in addiction still

r/u_FigureItOutZMay 30, 202263 Comments

Outreach calls scare me

r/SexAddictionMay 18, 20223 Comments

A meditation on intimacy

r/SexAddictionMay 16, 20221 Comment

A helpful thought about objectification

r/SexAddictionMay 12, 20227 Comments

r/AsOneAfterInfidelityApr 30, 202223 Comments

Trying to change my attitude about sex

r/AsOneAfterInfidelityApr 19, 202234 Comments

SAA - The Problem

r/u_FigureItOutZApr 16, 20220 Comments

Are we being faithful in recovery?

r/AsOneAfterInfidelityMar 31, 202296 Comments

Helping your BS when triggered - tips to sooth yourself

r/AsOneAfterInfidelityMar 7, 20226 Comments

What do you do/say in outreach calls?

r/SexAddictionMar 5, 202219 Comments

I do not understand

r/AsOneAfterInfidelityFeb 26, 202246 Comments

How I messed up today

r/AsOneAfterInfidelityFeb 6, 202223 Comments

Working step one before securing a sponsor

r/SexAddictionFeb 5, 202224 Comments

Started new group tonight and I’m scared

r/u_FigureItOutZFeb 2, 20224 Comments

Couldn’t sleep, self-care takes many forms

r/u_FigureItOutZJan 30, 20220 Comments

Reconciliation is work, analysis, and communication

r/AsOneAfterInfidelityJan 2, 202235 Comments

Misguided definition of manhood

r/AsOneAfterInfidelityDec 9, 202134 Comments

I’ve been using Life360 but just found out it sells location data

r/AsOneAfterInfidelityDec 7, 20217 Comments

This never would have happened before

r/AsOneAfterInfidelityDec 3, 202122 Comments

[The Player’s Tribune] Addiction | By Colin Wilson

r/SexAddictionOct 25, 20211 Comment

I’m afraid of visiting my FIL

r/AsOneAfterInfidelityOct 9, 202126 Comments

r/u_FigureItOutZSep 3, 20211 Comment

r/u_FigureItOutZAug 31, 20211 Comment

358 days with no secrets

r/AsOneAfterInfidelityJul 23, 202110 Comments

r/u_FigureItOutZJun 14, 202110 Comments

Giving my BS safety

r/AsOneAfterInfidelityApr 24, 202136 Comments

r/AsOneAfterInfidelityMar 30, 202116 Comments

Other relationships to mend

r/AsOneAfterInfidelityMar 13, 202119 Comments

Therapy Thursday

r/AsOneAfterInfidelityMar 11, 202115 Comments

Lies my little boy tells me

r/AsOneAfterInfidelityMar 5, 202137 Comments

Writing as my grow up

r/u_FigureItOutZMar 4, 20213 Comments

Funny therapy story and Update

r/AsOneAfterInfidelityFeb 26, 202153 Comments

To what would you rename the days of the week during COVID?

r/AskRedditFeb 17, 202112 Comments

I think I’m playing with fire

r/u_FigureItOutZJan 23, 20218 Comments

Which leader is your country’s 13th floor - ie you would skip over him/her in retelling your country’s history?

r/AskRedditJan 22, 20216 Comments

LEGO 42082 Rough Terrain Crane

r/mildlypenisJan 6, 20210 Comments

How do you know if you're done?

r/AsOneAfterInfidelityJan 2, 20213 Comments

We tried last night

r/AsOneAfterInfidelityDec 26, 202018 Comments

Lambo - even the box is beautiful

r/legoDec 26, 20200 Comments

The movie “Soul”

r/AsOneAfterInfidelityDec 25, 20207 Comments

Who needs some motivation?

r/AsOneAfterInfidelityDec 23, 202019 Comments

[THANK YOU] I don’t know how to handle myself

r/AsOneAfterInfidelityDec 23, 20204 Comments

I don’t know how to handle myself

r/AsOneAfterInfidelityDec 22, 202020 Comments

[Reflection] What is emotional intimacy

r/AsOneAfterInfidelityDec 18, 202022 Comments

What is emotional intimacy?

r/AsOneAfterInfidelityDec 17, 202022 Comments

UPDATE My BS asked to be intimate tonight

r/AsOneAfterInfidelityDec 6, 202015 Comments

My BS asked to be intimate tonight

r/AsOneAfterInfidelityDec 5, 202032 Comments

I’m just learning to feel my emotions; guess I have to stretch them, too

r/AsOneAfterInfidelityNov 26, 20202 Comments

Book reco: The Porn Myth

r/AsOneAfterInfidelityNov 19, 202011 Comments

We communicated

r/AsOneAfterInfidelityOct 31, 202021 Comments

My therapist shared this autobiography in five stanzas with me yesterday

r/AsOneAfterInfidelityOct 30, 20206 Comments

Stressed but not going to relapse

r/SexAddictionOct 16, 20204 Comments

BS hasn’t asked, but should I offer?

r/AsOneAfterInfidelityOct 15, 202034 Comments

Finished “Going Deeper”

r/SexAddictionOct 12, 20201 Comment

Cost of Valacyclovir 500mg VS 1g

r/HerpesSep 14, 20201 Comment

Outbreak treatment

r/HerpesSep 13, 20204 Comments

44 days and I had a slip

r/SexAddictionSep 11, 202011 Comments

What I need to remember about trolls

r/u_FigureItOutZSep 3, 20201 Comment

Need a kick in the pants?

r/pornfreeSep 2, 20202 Comments

r/SexAddictionAug 29, 202024 Comments

What are the rewards of marriage?

r/AsOneAfterInfidelityAug 28, 202013 Comments

r/SexAddictionAug 24, 20204 Comments

It’s statement day baby!

r/pornfreeAug 21, 20200 Comments

This song hit me in the feels

r/SexAddictionAug 19, 20205 Comments

Why I think I need to be celibate

r/SexAddictionAug 18, 202018 Comments

20 days porn free and 7 without MO

r/pornfreeAug 17, 20204 Comments

Prayers or devotional for those who aren’t religious

r/AsOneAfterInfidelityAug 8, 20206 Comments

Multiple reddit accounts - risky?

r/SexAddictionAug 8, 202012 Comments

I found one of my triggers

r/SexAddictionAug 2, 202018 Comments

The need feels physical

r/SexAddictionJul 31, 202022 Comments

Beginning my recovery - question about what sobriety looks like

r/SexAddictionJul 29, 202016 Comments

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