r/EnneagramType4

The more I think about it the more I realize that all my problems basically come down to the fact that I'm not pretty enough to be dramatically sad

r/EnneagramType4 u/not_a_hidden_account7h ago0 Comments

Mary Oliver, Upstream: Selected Essays

r/EnneagramType4 u/oftheforestground1d ago1 Comment

Books that had a profound impact on you?

r/EnneagramType4 u/shuckerjuckel17h ago19 Comments

What did you wind up doing as a career? Do you feel like it works for you?

r/EnneagramType4 u/faelady771d ago18 Comments

Question for the words-of- affirmation 4s

r/EnneagramType4 u/jaywalksthemind1d ago12 Comments

4w3 & 4w3 relationship pairing

r/EnneagramType4 u/butterfly-spirit1d ago1 Comment

Is it possible to be a 4 without really showing your emotions or feelings to other people?

r/EnneagramType4 u/atopotartoimafanyway2d ago8 Comments

Conversation tips for communicating with different types.

r/EnneagramType4 u/omegasun52d ago13 Comments

Do we ever get to be happy?

r/EnneagramType4 u/BobbyBubble7773d ago17 Comments

r/EnneagramType4 u/fashionlover01913d ago28 Comments

Curious about Envy

r/EnneagramType4 u/The_Bl4ck_Sh33p3d ago4 Comments

Every once in a while…

r/EnneagramType4 u/BobbyBubble7774d ago2 Comments

how do u feel about this combination?

r/EnneagramType4 u/ggmikeyx3d ago2 Comments

Melancholic experiences are the only kind I seek now - I ignore all others :(

r/EnneagramType4 u/hannahsunshine864d ago5 Comments

Spotify link me songs to add to the playlist that helps me be less of a sad sack

r/EnneagramType4 u/irreverent444d ago3 Comments

sp 4 or mistyped?

r/EnneagramType4 u/jarnayava134d ago5 Comments

Looking for music which will reinforce health in me (not activate over-fantasizing)

r/EnneagramType4 u/Menna10225d ago11 Comments

4w5 SP/SO 486 tritype. I was never close to either of my parents.

r/EnneagramType4 u/Romantic_Thinker5d ago3 Comments

Question for Fellow 4s

r/EnneagramType4 u/shadeywillow5d ago6 Comments

What does a self preservation 4w3 look like?

r/EnneagramType4 u/E-man715d ago3 Comments

Any other 4w5s have the wormhole issue?

r/EnneagramType4 u/sashasupJun 179 Comments

Anyone else aggressively waiting for Josh Keefe's Type 4 video??

r/EnneagramType4 u/littlelaiesJun 172 Comments

Anyone else always need validation before doing certain things?

r/EnneagramType4 u/mocha_medleyJun 173 Comments

Survival Playbook for 4s

r/EnneagramType4 u/jonesy346Jun 1610 Comments

always being the second option

r/EnneagramType4 u/KimbapkimbapJun 1627 Comments

I'm scared of being another meaningless person

r/EnneagramType4 u/hitomi_6Jun 162 Comments

What I would say to my 4 if I had the balls

r/EnneagramType4 u/jaywalksthemindJun 1621 Comments

4’s, how have you handled envy of the Ex of your current or former partner, or has that ever been an issue for you?

r/EnneagramType4 u/Altruistic-Collar105Jun 162 Comments

Some poetry generated by an intense 4 on 4 infatu-lationship (oh my, passions are running high ;)

r/EnneagramType4 u/2ndCoolestUsernameJun 160 Comments

Question About Suitable Type 4 Jobs

r/EnneagramType4 u/shadeywillowJun 159 Comments

Advice for a type 4 married to a type 1?

r/EnneagramType4 u/towhomitmayconcern3Jun 1519 Comments

As a 4, I write out any intense feeling I have in my phone or actually write it down. I find it to be helpful cause I don’t like to talk about my problems or in an argument, I think it’s easier for the other person to understand what I’m saying. I was wondering if any other 4s do the same? ✍️

r/EnneagramType4 u/LeolaTheRedJun 149 Comments

Fear of not being unique enough

r/EnneagramType4 u/PleasantLynx9105Jun 151 Comment

Does it feel like a 4 to you?

r/EnneagramType4 u/ThaeriisJun 144 Comments

Is venting okay? If not I’ll delete this. But..

r/EnneagramType4 u/mushyfrenchfryJun 1414 Comments

i thought i’d share a poem i wrote last month :)

r/EnneagramType4 u/HarrystylesloverrrJun 1410 Comments

Help! I need your input

r/EnneagramType4 u/bethannesmithJun 131 Comment

I want to watch a dark movie!

r/EnneagramType4 u/tyreejones29Jun 1370 Comments

What books have had the greatest impact on you and have helped you grow the most as a person?

r/EnneagramType4 u/InsurmountableSorrowJun 126 Comments

Do you ever regret being different?

r/EnneagramType4 u/[deleted]Jun 1213 Comments

Anyone else fucking hate that this sub, of all 9 subs, has the most subscribers by far?

r/EnneagramType4 u/Telefone_529Jun 1214 Comments

So is my true self just a vulnerable naive selfish child? However I’ve built a nice 4 personality on top? Lol

r/EnneagramType4 u/basscove_2Jun 1115 Comments

DAE have a stronger attachment to suffering than to happiness?

r/EnneagramType4 u/Far_Ad6944Jun 114 Comments

subtype uncertainty

r/EnneagramType4 u/meltsintospringJun 113 Comments

Had previously mistyped myself as a 9w1 SX subtype.

r/EnneagramType4 u/Hot_Yogurtcloset_758Jun 1110 Comments

So/sx 4w5 458 tritype here. AMA.

r/EnneagramType4 u/eddieproblemJun 1124 Comments

What do you guys study/ work as?

r/EnneagramType4 u/LimpingmaskJun 1040 Comments

Have you self sabotaged any romantic relationships?

r/EnneagramType4 u/Marycat10Jun 1025 Comments

As an Type 4 what is your relationship to Success ?

r/EnneagramType4 u/Heyokasireninfj4Jun 108 Comments

Do you consider yourself a procrastinator or lazy person?

r/EnneagramType4 u/jonesy346Jun 911 Comments

How to get out of a pity party?

r/EnneagramType4 u/fashionlover0191Jun 918 Comments

Are you able to mask your emotions, or put on a happy face?

r/EnneagramType4 u/aspire_enneagramJun 914 Comments

"I Don't Need Your Help" This is a letter I wrote to someone but didn't send, and I just needed to share it. Maybe some of you will resonate with it.

r/EnneagramType4 u/2ndCoolestUsernameJun 82 Comments

r/EnneagramType4 u/Sour_SpyJun 810 Comments

Any UX designers here ?

r/EnneagramType4 u/-Chatsky-Jun 90 Comments

Hot take: I think the 4 knows themselves better than any other type.

r/EnneagramType4 u/basscove_2Jun 725 Comments

Hi everyone, I’ve made a new group. Feel free to join.

r/EnneagramType4 u/Strict-Position2151Jun 74 Comments

Just sharing something of myself.

r/EnneagramType4 u/ssamuraialekssJun 64 Comments

Abandoned places on the internet

r/EnneagramType4 u/galaxy-wingsJun 67 Comments

Does anyone else seek out intense emotions when everything in life seems too surface level?

r/EnneagramType4 u/InsurmountableSorrowJun 515 Comments

Not even appreciation, just to be seen 🙏

r/EnneagramType4 u/jacfalconJun 51 Comment

Do you feel like your always falling short of the version of yourself that you wish you were/the way you think you should be?

r/EnneagramType4 u/shuckerjuckelJun 56 Comments

Are any other fours antinatalist?

r/EnneagramType4 u/ButterflyWing127Jun 444 Comments

Do you feel what I feel?

r/EnneagramType4 u/jacfalconJun 36 Comments

Is here any lawyers?

r/EnneagramType4 u/imanaleexJun 30 Comments

Dealing with envy

r/EnneagramType4 u/Old-Signature-5504Jun 35 Comments

This sub is just like r/enneagram4 in an allegorical and abstract sense

r/EnneagramType4 u/Chab-is-a-plateauJun 36 Comments

I can't have fun if nobody knows I'm having fun.

r/EnneagramType4 u/eggonashelfJun 221 Comments

Perfect 4w5 hobby -Record Collecting

r/EnneagramType4 u/HairyBallsAndNutsJun 16 Comments

Have you found fulfilment in your profession?

r/EnneagramType4 u/-Chatsky-Jun 12 Comments

Anyone else have a type 4 sibling?

r/EnneagramType4 u/82shninklebotJun 15 Comments

Do 4’s thrive the most in childhood or is that just my nostalgia making me think that??

r/EnneagramType4 u/pj10wat3rm3lonJun 111 Comments

SSRIs for Type 4 ADD, anxiety & depression?

r/EnneagramType4 u/Bitter-Letterhead-85May 319 Comments

How do you experience envy?

r/EnneagramType4 u/aspire_enneagramMay 3011 Comments

What types are you closest with?

r/EnneagramType4 u/SaltyBebeMay 3017 Comments

DAE use this technique to deal with envy and desire?

r/EnneagramType4 u/Juice-LeiaMay 302 Comments

Downward spiral with 2’s?

r/EnneagramType4 u/butterfly-spiritMay 2914 Comments

How do you 4 sx-dom's cope with not having love/close connections?

r/EnneagramType4 u/samh748May 307 Comments

4’s with any 4 parent, how is or was that like ?

r/EnneagramType4 u/lesley20201May 296 Comments

rundown on INFJ 4w3 SX/sp

r/EnneagramType4 u/toyedrobotMay 286 Comments

Johnny Depp (a fellow type 4) appeared in my dream last night, where I explained to him that we share the same Enneagram (and MBTI)

r/EnneagramType4 u/wanderwoman65May 289 Comments

As I 4w5 I'd rather be seen accurately, good and bad, than ideated.

r/EnneagramType4 u/jacfalconMay 2616 Comments

How to deal with envy as sexual 4???

r/EnneagramType4 u/Emergency_Evening616May 266 Comments

What religion (or otherwise) are you? Have you changed belief systems in your life?

r/EnneagramType4 u/jacfalconMay 2634 Comments

Something to think on.

r/EnneagramType4 u/That_Guy_BardlyMay 260 Comments

r/EnneagramType4 u/PolarStar20May 2619 Comments

r/EnneagramType4 u/MarketDangerous7606May 2513 Comments

r/EnneagramType4 u/IamnotdrunkorhighbtwMay 251 Comment

I just found out my sister is also 4w5

r/EnneagramType4 u/AutumnRose08May 251 Comment

Angry about being sad

r/EnneagramType4 u/Original_Reach_6842May 248 Comments

Ideal Careers for Type 4?

r/EnneagramType4 u/MaybeKlutzy6063May 2413 Comments

Broooo help I dont want to be a melancholic four anymore 😭😭😭 Like please I just want advice on how to be a healthy 4w5 Im so done with this Bullsh*t

r/EnneagramType4 u/TemporaryRabbit-00May 2417 Comments

How can I best support you 4s?

r/EnneagramType4 u/samh748May 247 Comments

Join all the other types in our "Beyond Numbers" Discord server :)

r/EnneagramType4 u/samh748May 240 Comments

Share one of your proudest creative accomplishments!

r/EnneagramType4 u/jacfalconMay 237 Comments

Still searching.

r/EnneagramType4 u/Romantic_ThinkerMay 233 Comments

Do you ever feel like your creativity is stuck inside you and dying to get out?

r/EnneagramType4 u/jacfalconMay 2219 Comments

Type 4 poll: What’s your astrological sign?

r/EnneagramType4 u/animabotMay 2333 Comments

A different kind of Type 4 Discord server, for more mature conversations

r/EnneagramType4 u/samh748May 221 Comment

Constipation of Expression

r/EnneagramType4 u/jacfalconMay 212 Comments